{"id":770,"date":"2008-03-12T20:31:31","date_gmt":"2008-03-13T01:31:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/192.185.166.32\/~davidfoster\/?p=770"},"modified":"2009-10-21T20:32:25","modified_gmt":"2009-10-22T01:32:25","slug":"tim-stevens-perspective-on-leadership","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.davidfoster.tv\/tim-stevens-perspective-on-leadership\/","title":{"rendered":"Tim Stevens perspective on leadership"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.leadingsmart.com\/leadingsmart\/2008\/02\/it-just-makes-c.html\" target=\"_blank\">Tim Stevens<\/a> is the x-pastor @ <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gccwired.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Granger Community<\/a>.  He had this great perspective on how far this whole \u201cleadership thing\u201d should expend into your life.<\/p>\n<p>I think that leadership translates beyond your professional career. <strong>A real leader pays attention<\/strong> to his\/her marriage, gives time to his\/her kids, and invests in relationships that matter. A real leader is also making wise decisions with money.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Save for <strong>retirement<\/strong> now. We started setting money aside the first year of our marriage. That first year (we were 23-years old) we could only afford $5\/month\u2013but knew that we needed to <strong>start the habit early<\/strong>. We\u2019ve increased it every year since.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t use a credit card<\/strong> for anything you can\u2019t pay off right away. Use a credit card for convenience, but <strong>don\u2019t ever pay interest<\/strong>. If you can\u2019t control yourself, get rid of the cards.<\/li>\n<li>Tithe\u2013I really believe that <strong>God blesses those who tithe<\/strong>. I think he keeps the car running longer, the roof from leaking as soon as it would have, and He loves to sprinkle you with raises and added cash you didn\u2019t expect.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Give generously<\/strong>. The tithe is the minimum. We began our first year of marriage giving 10% of our income and then increased it every year until we got to 20%. The first 10% goes to the general fund at our church. The other 10% we use to support missionaries, give to new building projects at our church, and bless people who come into our lives.<\/li>\n<li>If you are married, <strong>don\u2019t ever make a big purchase<\/strong> without talking to each other. Really, trust me on this.<\/li>\n<li>No <strong>spontaneous purchases<\/strong>. Okay, buying a pair of shorts would be fine. But anything that would be a significant purchase can wait 24-hours. Avoid any vendor who says, \u201cYou have to decide now.\u201d If the deal can\u2019t wait a day, then decide to walk away.<\/li>\n<li>Live by a <strong>budget<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<li>Teach your kids to handle their money. They aren\u2019t going to learn financial management at school. <strong>No one else is going to teach them<\/strong> to be generous. By the time they\u2019ve been out of your house a week, they will have already received 14 credit card invitations. Teach them early.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Set aside money for fun<\/strong>. Fun with your spouse. Fun with your kids. Fun for yourself (for me, that means buying a geeky gadget on occasion).<\/li>\n<li>When you can, start a <strong>Rainy Day fund<\/strong>. It was many years into our marriage before we could do this, but we began setting aside $25\/paycheck. Some day the furnace is going to break or a tree will fall on the side of your house. Or your house will get hit by lightning like ours did earlier this year.<\/li>\n<li>Put the stuff you want on a <strong>list<\/strong> and pray about it. Don\u2019t buy it until you can pay for it with cash. This builds your faith, teaches you patience, and gives you a journal to record answers to prayer.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t wait<\/strong> until you have more money to put wise financial management into practice in your life. Faith and I started this stuff when we had no money and we were living on beans and weenies. It just makes \u201ccents.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tim Stevens is the x-pastor @ Granger Community. He had this great perspective on how far this whole \u201cleadership thing\u201d should expend into your life. I think that leadership translates beyond your professional career. A real leader pays attention to his\/her marriage, gives time to his\/her kids, and invests in relationships that matter. A real &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.davidfoster.tv\/tim-stevens-perspective-on-leadership\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Tim Stevens perspective on leadership&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"series":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.davidfoster.tv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/770"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.davidfoster.tv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.davidfoster.tv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.davidfoster.tv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.davidfoster.tv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=770"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.davidfoster.tv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/770\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.davidfoster.tv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=770"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.davidfoster.tv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=770"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.davidfoster.tv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=770"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.davidfoster.tv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=770"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}